Successful two-way communication with your child

 Successful two-way communication with your child 

Communication effectively with our children is one of the most frustrating challenges we face as parents. Although we strive to open an honest two-way line of communication with our child, we are frustrated when his attention is not only on us or in the current conversation. However, suppose we find it quite acceptable to discuss things with them while reading the newspaper, folding clothes, or working at the computer. In that case, we often wonder when the lines of communication will break.

Children, by nature, are easily distracted and do not always interact with their surroundings. Parents are responsible for emphasizing positive communication patterns and ensuring that the child learns that ignoring communication is unacceptable. Early prevention, as well as educating your child on the correct forms of communication, is the key to ensuring non-verbal agreement. Teach your child by example. Stay completely and completely focused on them and the current conversation. Turn off the TV, allow calls to access voicemail, or go to a room where there are no distractions. 

Talk to your child and explain to him in age-appropriate terms how he communicates and why his method does not work. Show your child how to communicate effectively, even when the questions are difficult. 

Make yourself an active listener. Let them express their opinion or side of the story, and ask questions to make sure you understand their point of view.

Be consistent in the way you communicate with your child. Send the same message with every interaction. Draw his attention to the moments when unwanted behavior turns ugly.

Children will be children and will sometimes be distracted and disconnected. You are the expert to know your child’s behavior and can better judge the improvement of his communication. The best way to ensure healthy communication patterns is to model positive communication skills.